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The holidays have been over for only about a month or so. But even if you had time to relax and gear up for the new year, you might not be feeling like your best self right now.

This makes sense. After all, you might be feeling the effects of Earth changes and the energies of the full moon. And on top of all that, there’s still a global pandemic to deal with!

So just like what I hear from my clients, I wouldn’t be surprised if you told me that you’ve been feeling less than stellar these days. For example, you might be…

• extra stressed because you’re going crazy while working from home and trying to supervise remote learning for your kids at the same time
• feeling burned out from always worrying about everyone else’s needs and putting your own on the backburner
• less motivated to chase your dreams because the pandemic has affected your life in big ways and you don’t know when your luck is going to turn around
• especially emotional because painful experiences and feelings from your p
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Has anyone ever told you to “just be yourself?” Have you ever really questioned what that really means? What does that look and feel like?

 The reason this may feel foreign to you is like many of us, we grew up with an inflicted idea of how our life should be and how it should turn out. From a young age we were told what the requirements are for the perfect life, such as going to school, getting an education, finding a full-time job, making money, find a significant other, get married, have kids and a perfect family. 

 Because we know no other, in order to achieve what we feel will bring us fulfillment, joy and happiness we do whatever it takes to try to achieve this false dream. We put everyone’s needs before our own, we keep ourselves exhausted, busy and stressed. We try to “keep up with the joneses” by working harder to gain more tangible items, see our family less and at the end of the day we’re too tired to invest in the important relationships around us, especially with ourselv...

Wow, can you believe that it’s already 2020??? Last year flew by so quickly for me. And I bet it did for you too. 

However, the beginning of a new year always reminds me to reflect on old goals and make new ones. What about you? What seeds of intention will you plant for the forthcoming year so you can embrace 2020 and all the opportunity it holds? 

To be clear, I’m not talking about “classic” New Year’s resolutions here. I’m talking about what your deepest and most heartfelt desires are. What are your dreams and visions? What changes are you thinking about making in your relationships, your health, your finances, your career, your lifestyle, or your spirituality? 

The intentions you hold and the foundations you build NOW will set the tone for the journey ahead and will control the flow of energy in your life over the next few years. 

Whatever you can dream, you can create! Your future begins now! 

Turning Your Focus Inward to Embrace 2020

Your future doesn’t depend much on exter...

 If you talk to anyone who’s achieved ANYTHING big—whether it was finding a better job, losing weight, making a stable income, or eating a healthy diet—you’ll find that they have 2 things in common:

 1) They didn’t wait for “perfect timing”—they just took action.

2) They got help on their way to the top.

Why We Get Stuck in Negative Cycles—Like Waiting for “Perfect Timing”

One key reason why many of us get so stuck in negative cycles and wait for “perfect timing” is that we have high and unrealistic expectations of ourselves. If you often forget to stay in the present moment, ask yourself this: “Where am I in my life right now?” or “Am I able to do the same thing I could do years ago?” 

You might be older, have struggled with disturbing events, have more responsibilities, experienced big life changes, or had major/minor health issues. The life events you’ve experienced and your perception of yourself during these events can adversely affect your physical and psychological well-bei...