RELATIONSHIP GUIDE: Gosh… I Love You More Every Single Day: How to Create Your Ideal Relationship + FREE Relationship Vision Guide

When I think of the ideal relationship—the kind of connection that feels like more than a partnership, something deeper, more fulfilling, and truly motivating—it isn’t just about finding someone to walk through life with. It’s about discovering a relationship that feels like home, that brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person every day. A connection that isn’t just supportive but inspiring, a relationship that makes you feel alive.

Now, imagine this: waking up each morning beside someone who, with every look, every touch, every word, seems to say, “I love you more every single day.” What would it be like to experience that, to feel that depth of love and connection as something real, something you can trust? Picture this person not as a dream, but as part of your everyday reality—someone who, just by being there, shifts your whole way of seeing the world.

Before these thoughts settle, let’s pause. Because what we’re really talking about here is not some distant, unreachable fantasy. It’s a relationship that can be created, but it begins with knowing what you truly want and believing that you have the power to bring it to life. This isn’t about settling; it’s about stepping into your own vision, feeling what that love could be, and understanding that you are capable of creating it.

So how do we create that relationship? How do we cultivate a partnership that deepens every day, where both people feel seen, understood, and inspired? Keep reading, and let’s explore what it takes to turn this vision into a living reality.

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What Is Your Relationship Vision?

Often, we go through life on autopilot, especially in relationships. We hope things will work out, that somehow, by a stroke of fate, our ideal relationship will find us. But imagine what it would feel like to be in a relationship where you consciously decide to love, appreciate, and inspire each other every day. A relationship that motivates you to become the best version of yourself and encourages you to do the same for your partner. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating a relationship that brings out the highest and most beautiful parts of who you both are.

So let’s start there. Ask yourself: What kind of relationship do I want to create?

This is not about the partner you’re looking for but about the connection you’re committed to building. Think about the qualities that matter most to you. Are you seeking a partnership rooted in deep trust, open communication, mutual growth, or shared inspiration? Reflect on the foundation you want this relationship to have and what will keep it strong.

If you find it helpful to have a guide for mapping out your relationship vision, you can download my free workbook, Our Relationship Vision. It’s designed to help you clarify your desires and reflect on the connection you want to create.

Now imagine yourself living within this vision. What would it feel like to hear the words, “I love you more every day?” Or to say to your partner, “Gosh, I love you more every day”? Picture what it would be like to experience this connection—where love deepens each day, where you both feel a powerful bond built on respect, appreciation, and shared joy. Imagine the depth of that connection, knowing that you are both actively building something that grows stronger with each passing day, that you’re not only participants but active creators in this journey together. Download the Our Relationship Vision Here 👇

Embracing and Confronting Doubts

As you hold this vision, you may find old beliefs or doubts creeping in. “Is this even possible for me? Do I really deserve this kind of love?” These questions might feel like barriers, but they’re actually signals. They show us where we need to heal, to grow, and to open our hearts.

Doubts often reflect our past experiences, times when love didn’t feel safe or fulfilling. But remember, these doubts don’t define what’s possible—they’re just reminders of the work we’re being invited to do. For many of us, truly experiencing this depth of love requires breaking through our own unique barriers—past hurts, fears, or wounds we may carry. If you feel ready for deeper work on these barriers, coaching, therapy, or healing may be an important step to help you release what no longer serves you and create a path to the love and fulfillment you deserve.

Addressing Distance and Exhaustion: Why Should I Do the Work?

If you’re reading this and feeling a sense of distance in your relationship—if the love is still there but feels overshadowed by unresolved conflicts or misunderstandings—you’re not alone. Many people reach a point where they wonder, “Why do I need to put in more effort? I’ve tried everything I knew, and I’m exhausted.” This feeling is valid, and it’s a natural reaction to relationship patterns that leave us feeling stuck, unseen, or misunderstood.

Often, this distance comes from default patterns we’ve learned over time—ways of interacting, reacting, or avoiding that may have worked in the past but now keep us in a loop of disconnection. We might try to use the same methods, hoping things will change, only to find ourselves back in the same place, wondering if love is enough to bridge the gap.

But here’s the thing: love alone may not break these patterns, but a willingness to look inward and allow change within ourselves can be a first step toward the connection we long for.

This journey doesn’t mean doing all the work alone. Instead, it means understanding that true, lasting change often begins with us. When we break free from old habits and invite new approaches, we open a door to fresh possibilities. And if you and your partner can join together in this work, even better, because collaboration can strengthen your bond and create an environment where both of you feel safe to grow.

Turning Vision into Reality: Start from Within

As mentioned earlier, creating a fulfilling relationship begins with a vision—a powerful image of what you desire and deserve. But this vision isn’t just about waiting for someone else to show up and fulfill it; it’s about becoming someone who actively participates in bringing that vision to life.

Ask yourself, What can I bring to a relationship to make it fulfilling, uplifting, and inspiring?

We each have unique strengths in relationships. For some, it’s the ability to make others feel safe and understood. For others, it’s inspiring their partner to pursue their dreams, to be healthier, or to find purpose in life. Consider what you bring to a relationship that lifts both you and your partner. You have the power to influence not only the health and happiness of your relationship but also the well-being of the person you’re with. And, most importantly, this influence begins with you.

Taking Responsibility for What We Create

The truth is, we are all creators in our relationships. We have the ability to make a positive impact every day—to inspire, to uplift, to help our partners become the best versions of themselves. Take a moment to ask yourself: How can I contribute to my relationship today? How can I create a space where my partner feels loved, appreciated, and inspired to grow?

When we approach love this way, something remarkable happens. We’re not only making an impact in our partner’s life or creating love in our own heart; we’re contributing to something much bigger. The love and care we cultivate within our relationship radiate out, creating a ripple effect that touches everything around us. The people we meet, the work we do, the energy we carry—it all becomes infused with that same intention, that same positivity and kindness. Love, in this way, is never just for us. It’s the most powerful energy we can share, one that expands beyond us, beyond even our relationship, into the world we live in.

This isn’t about creating love for ego’s sake, for validation, or for the sake of saying “I feel good.” It’s about knowing that when we build this foundation within ourselves and within our relationships, we’re creating a kind of love that uplifts everyone it touches. Imagine the kind of world we could create if every relationship were a source of love, strength, and inspiration—if each of us brought that intention to those we care about, knowing that our impact reaches far beyond ourselves.

Closing Thought

So, I leave you with this thought: What if, every day, you could look at your partner and say, “I love you more than yesterday”? What if you could feel that each day, you’re creating something beautiful together? That’s the power we each hold to make love a choice, a practice, and a reality.

If you’re ready to dive deeper into this work and take steps to transform your relationship patterns, my course From Conflict to Ultimate Love™  offers a pathway. It’s designed to guide you through recognizing your own toxic dragons in relationships—the barriers and triggers that keep you stuck. Through awareness, you’ll learn to find the antidotes and tools to bring your vision of connection and fulfillment to life. This journey is about empowering you to create a love that grows, heals, and endures.

Remember, this journey is deeply personal and, above all, meaningful. You’re worthy of love that expands, that makes you feel valued and understood.

Because…

You matter. What you have to say matters. Who you are matters.

You and your relationships matter.

I hope you found this blog inspiring and motivating, but I’m curious—how do you plan to bring more love within yourself and into your relationship? Share your thoughts below; I’d love to hear from you. 

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