Are you willing to put in the work to get results? If so, my answer to you is a huge YES (x2)!

This program can help you increase and shift your awareness of your negative patterns in your relationship, learn about your self-sabotaging tendencies, discover what it takes to create a deeper connection with your partner, and understand how to shift your relationship from conflict to ultimate love.

Plus, you’ll have lifetime access to all the video and audio lessons, resources and bonuses, so you can revisit + reuse them any time you wish in the future.

I’ll give you the exact roadmap to guide you every single step of the way. On top of that, I will be your biggest cheerleader and supporter, and if you opt for the VIP Experience I’ll be your live coach and mentor too.

So here’s my question for you. What would it be worth to you, to finally feel within you the kind of connection and love that you so deeply deserve and desire?

I know you’ve got lots on your plate. Trust me, I do. But tell me this. Will there ever be a better time to work on your relationship?

Will you really have more time to dedicate to this when the kids get older and go to college? Will there really be more time when you have more money, or less work? You know as well as I do that life will always happen.

And the TRUTH is that, however busy we are, we all have time for things we WANT to do, or that we feel are important — because we decide to create the time!

True success in any relationship happens when we create time for it, nurture it, and commit to it. One of the major reasons for skyrocketing divorce rates in the United States is a lack of time. People simply stopped prioritizing their relationship, thinking that it would just last forever.

So many of the people I see in my office only make an appointment when it’s almost too late to rescue anything — the damage is huge, and the disconnect seems irreparable. This breaks my heart every time, because I know it wouldn’t have been that way if they’d simply dedicated time to their relationship sooner.

So if you still think you don’t have time to commit to this right now, think of it this way. Are you sure you or your relationship are going to be okay if you leave this for another year, or 2, or 5?

If you can answer that question with a resounding “yes,” that’s great! You might not need this program right now. But if you can’t, I want you to think about what you might lose by putting off this opportunity to work on your relationship now.

I created this program help you get clarity on what ’s damaging your bond and what you can do to have effective, peaceful, and loving conversations that will make a difference. That’s what I want for you. You deserve it!

Change is scary. Sometimes, I’m afraid too — any time I need to do something I’ve never done before, I feel the fear creeping in. This is completely normal. And I know that most of the time, the change we fear is the change we need the most.

When we know deep down that the change is good for us, all we need to do is take it one step at a time and move forward, regardless of the fear we may experience along the way. If your goal is to have a deeper and more fulfilling relationship, let this goal be your “navigation system” — and trust that it will get you where you want to go, one step at a time.

Remember that because this program is for YOU, the more you work on yourself and create positive changes within yourself, the better your relationship will be. When you change the way you dance, it will change the way your partner responds to your dance moves. In other words, when you change your own vibration, it will change the vibration of your relationship and that of the people around you.

If you’re still feeling scared, keep in mind that you’re not alone. And I’ll even let you in on a little secret — during Week 3, we’ll talk about how to rise above fear and negativity and what your available antidotes are. Stay tuned!

From Conflict to Ultimate Love™ is an educational program, not a therapy program. So if you’re in an abusive relationship, either physically or emotionally, or you or your partner are currently mentally unstable (for example, having a diagnosis of severe depression, paranoid schizophrenia, panic disorder, or severe PTSD) this course might not be for you at this stage.

Therapy may be a better option for you (unless your psychotherapist or psychologist thinks that this course would be beneficial for you and that you are able to integrate the skills we teach here).

If your relationship has a history of significant physical abuse (hitting, slapping, etc.), frequent hostile name calling, severe threats to your safety, or fear of your partner, please seek individual help from a licensed professional who has expertise in this area. Nobody should live in fear, my dear. It’s not worth it, and it’s not what you deserve. I suggest that you seek support to help you with these relationship challenges and to help you get stronger first.

I totally hear you. As I say, I know change can be scary. But the fact that you’re here reading this tells me that this program resonated with you, so you probably already know deep within yourself that it might be the right thing for you.

Having a fear of how other people will react when we change is completely valid (and common). Most of my clients and students were afraid of rocking the boat at some point. But giving in to this fear didn’t protect them or make their lives easier. It just kept them stuck in the status quo for a long time.

My goal for you is not to face this ‘dragon’ right away. Instead, in this program, you’ll begin to make changes one step at a time. When things feel right for you and you learn to communicate from your heart and not from fear, you will see the difference within yourself and in your relationships.

I personally haven’t experienced more conflict with anyone when my words and energy resonated with my heart center and when I was coming from a place of love, curiosity, and openness. And that’s exactly what I teach in From Conflict to Ultimate Love™.

The most conflict I’ve seen in couples I’ve served (and in my personal relationships) is when both people are either speaking from a place of anger and ego or aren’t communicating and trying to avoid the problem altogether. Both of these situations lead to more conflict, resentment, and greater distance between them. That’s why in this course, you’ll first identify the negative patterns that keep you stuck in vicious cycles of fear and anger (what I call the ‘Ten Toxic Dragons’) and then learn how to create the antidotes to these toxic cycles.

Remember that real transformation takes time. It happens slowly and gently, not abruptly and aggressively. I know it’s scary, but it doesn’t have to be so scary that you feel paralyzed with fear. You can go through transformation with some degree of fear and as you create more love, understanding, and confidence within you, your energy will change and you will feel more encouraged to tackle the issues that you’ve been sweeping under the rug for so long.

So basically, what you’ll learn in this course isn’t how to ‘rock the boat’ but how to change your own energy when triggered by your partner, and effectively and authentically communicate in a way that will help your boat sail on much more peaceful waters. If this is possible for me and my clients, it’s possible for you too.

Absolutely! If you’re currently single or thinking about leaving your relationship, this course is for you too. The tools that I share with you in From Conflict to Ultimate Love™ will help you with all other close relationships you may have and with any future romantic relationship you might want.

So whether you’re constantly butting heads with family members or caught in a never ending cycle of conflict with an ex, you’ll learn how to discover a heart-centered place within you that will help you navigate emotional storms and communicate from love and authenticity.

AMy dear, I totally hear you. When things seem complicated, they also appear out of control. It doesn’t have to be this way. I am sure that your relationship is as unique as every relationship on this planet.

Although I don’t know your personal experience and what exactly is going on in your relationship, I can tell you that in this program, you’ll get much more clarity on where you are in your relationship, what is and isn’t working, and what you can do to create a positive shift within yourself and/or your relationship. We’ll do it one step at a time so you don’t get overwhelmed as we go — and you’ll see that even things that seem impossibly complicated can be solved!

We are extremely complex human beings with unique personalities, circumstances, and gifts. Sometimes we think that our situation is so complex that there is no way out or that it’s almost impossible to straighten things out.

Even though From Conflict to Ultimate Love™ is all about relationships and how to create a better and more loving relationship with yourself, and with your partner or your loved one, the exercises are not designed for couples. 

These exercises are very deep and designed for individual transformation and growth because this journey is about YOU, as the change-maker in your life and relationship.

In order to have love and connection with others, you first have to create this love within yourself. Going through this program will help you identify how you can change so you can handle conflicts more lovingly and mindfully.

Now, I know that you may want your partner to join you and change too. But at this stage, if your focus becomes your partner and what they need to change — instead of what you could benefit from changing — it will stop you from experiencing real growth and progress in this program.

I know that putting aside your partner’s limitations to focus on yourself can be challenging for some, especially if you’ve been ‘other focused’ or ‘partner focused’ for a while. But the reality is that trying to improve your relationship by getting your partner to change rarely produces results that last. I purposefully created From Conflict to Ultimate Love to be ‘self focused’ so it can bring you the satisfaction, fulfillment, and lasting change you’ve been longing for.

Of course, I encourage you to share your experiences in the program with your partner (if that feels right to you) and you’re welcome to share videos and any exercises or tools that you learn about with them. 

Although I don’t know your personal experience and what exactly is going on in your relationship, I can tell you that in this program, you’ll get much more clarity on where you are in your relationship, what is and isn’t working, and what you can do to create a positive shift within yourself and/or your relationship. We’ll do it one step at a time so you don’t get overwhelmed as we go — and you’ll see that even things that seem impossibly complicated can be solved!

We are extremely complex human beings with unique personalities, circumstances, and gifts. Sometimes we think that our situation is so complex that there is no way out or that it’s almost impossible to straighten things out.

NOTE: We are not able to provide a separate log in for your partner. If your partner requires access in a separate account, please have them purchase the course.

From Conflict to Ultimate Love is a set of pre-recorded videos, meditations and experiential exercises, and downloadable materials created by Vera.

Vera will not be providing real-time therapy or coaching to class participants while she might occasionally jump in to answer some of the student comments or questions within the course portal. 

If you are desiring a more personal approach while studying the course, you can schedule one-on-one online session with Vera:

• The Ultimate Love Coaching Session (75 Minutes)
• The Relationship Rescue Coaching Session (50 Minutes)

If you are currently residing in California and inquiring individual or couples therapy services from Vera, please schedule a Consultation Session HERE. 

I’ve been perfecting the tools and strategies I teach in From Conflict to Ultimate Love™ for many years, as I’ve worked with couples and families who have struggled to deal with their emotions or relationship problems when they were triggered.

So I can tell you that if you use my 7-Step Bridge to Connection Formula for crossing the bridge from conflict to love, you’ll not only experience peace, understanding, compassion and acceptance within, you’ll also gain valuable relationship skills that will last a lifetime.

These skills will help you create a deeper relationship with your partner AND also positively affect every relationship in your life.

Even more importantly, though, this program will change the relationship you have with yourself.

Specifically, it will teach you skills and help you transform lower emotions and thoughtforms experientially so that the change lasts a long time. You see, when you’re able to embrace your own triggers, accept your vulnerability, manage emotions with compassion, take ownership of your contribution to conflict, and consciously transform your ego, there are no limits to what you can create in your life and relationships.

You might be motivated to do more with your life, be more productive at work because you’re less stressed, feel more in control than out of control, and be able to approach any life challenge with a more positive attitude. These are just some of the ‘side effects’ of signing up for this program and learning the tools I’ll be sharing with you.

No! This program is packed with content. You could spend 3 hours each week for 6 weeks if the time allows you to do that or you could stretch it out. We recommend that you plan a time to watch videos in order and complete exercises for that week. 

Depending on the rhythm of your life, you might do this over the course of 3 weeks, a month or a few months. Do what's best for you. Give yourself enough time to process the content. The exercises also require some of you quiet time so you can truly benefit from this course.  

Keep in mind that from the moment you sign up for the course, we will be releasing content weekly over the 6-week span. This gives you some time to watch, process and integrate the materials.